Changing for a Guy

Does he love me? Or love me not? We all pulled the petals of a flower and said those words in our childhood at least once. Now we think it when we walk by him in the hall, see his newest status updates, and late at night when we're falling asleep. We may be falling head-over-heels but we shouldn't change who we are just to try to get him to think the same things.
The first things we seem to always change for a guy is how we dress and how we put our makeup on. When you look in the mirror next time don't think, "Will he like this?" and instead think, "If he doesn't like this then there is something wrong with him!" If the guy doesn't already think you're beautiful, then he isn't worth your time.
The next thing we change is our attitude; becoming super girly or the biggest butthead in school. You'll either start giggling at everything he says (which gets REALLY annoying) or you'll start treating people like dirt just so he notices you. If he already like you, then the new you is going to be a MAJOR turnoff.
So, girls, here is the bottom line, either he does like you or he doesn't. If he doesn't, stop trying to change and start looking for a guy that is really worth your while.

Dating Older Guys

I know that a lot of girls think it’s cool to date guys who are older than them, but there are always limits; I’m going to tell you what those limits are. Here’s limit number one: If he is talking about commitment when you’re not even in collage yet, he’s too old. Number two: If he is so much older than you that you sneak out to be together, he’s still too old. Number three is probably the most important: If he feels ready to have sex, he is defiantly too old.
I know that lots of girls think they can handle dating older guys but the truth is that many of them aren’t. They want to feel more mature but they can be downgraded by an older guy’s expectation. Another thing is that a lot of older guys will just use young girls for sex and for a sense of control. Here are places a guy will look to manipulate you: Work, Coffee Shops, and at stores. If you work with an older guy who says he likes you and to prove it he stalks you here’s what you do: tell your parents and your boss. If it’s any other situation you should still always tell your parents, they’ll help you more than anyone else. Remember, a year or two age difference is all that major unless he is in collage and your in high school, but never date anybody who could be mistaken for your father, because that’s just weird.