Monday, July 25, 2011

Changing for a Guy

Does he love me? Or love me not? We all pulled the petals of a flower and said those words in our childhood at least once. Now we think it when we walk by him in the hall, see his newest status updates, and late at night when we're falling asleep. We may be falling head-over-heels but we shouldn't change who we are just to try to get him to think the same things.
The first things we seem to always change for a guy is how we dress and how we put our makeup on. When you look in the mirror next time don't think, "Will he like this?" and instead think, "If he doesn't like this then there is something wrong with him!" If the guy doesn't already think you're beautiful, then he isn't worth your time.
The next thing we change is our attitude; becoming super girly or the biggest butthead in school. You'll either start giggling at everything he says (which gets REALLY annoying) or you'll start treating people like dirt just so he notices you. If he already like you, then the new you is going to be a MAJOR turnoff.
So, girls, here is the bottom line, either he does like you or he doesn't. If he doesn't, stop trying to change and start looking for a guy that is really worth your while.